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Sherman Alexie's avatar

Oh, this one! The bureaucracy of loneliness...

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roger hawcroft's avatar

Deidre Lewis, your post contains depths of real significance in relation to current values -

Our (un)caring society - no, it's not law that dominates, it's money - smiles, standing back, friendly greetings, real & felt understanding for disadvantage, disability, ageing effects, and simple respect for the vast array of varying human experience yet the commonality of need - these are either rare, close to disappearing or gone ...

How stark, yesterday and today - how paradoxical, the cold and hard old buildings filled with human connection and the modern, smooth, stylish, colourful, softly furnished tombs, devoid of smiles but equipped with guards & machines to deter the now ready eruption of hostility, blame & violence.

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Deirdre Lewis's avatar

Thank you Roger, I appreciate your reading. I'm always interested in those contrasts especially

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Kit Spahr's avatar

“Perfect little bits of jazz”…perfect description of Snaps.

After being able to renew my license online in my state for years…apparently now I’m too old so I have to drive 40 minutes to stand in line for a few hours because…? I will be thinking of today’s piece to entertain myself while I wait…getting older by the minute.

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Deirdre Lewis's avatar

Ha! Well good luck. Must be time for all the paperwork!

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Mary Grogan's avatar

How wonderful, just recently went to the DMV to renew my license. They said the form they sent me was not good anymore and gave me a new one, the only difference being the issue date. I really needed to read this.

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Deirdre Lewis's avatar

The DMV…that might be the worst place of all!

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Mary Grogan's avatar

It was, but I came home and found ways to be happy

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Deirdre Lewis's avatar

Thank goodness.

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Woman Who Wept Fire's avatar

I love this. I was standing in line with you and both the voices in your head. You are me. Thanks for taking the time to write these, I love them. Congrats on the praises you are being given!!

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roger hawcroft's avatar

... and I appreciate your writing. Glad that what I had to say was o.k. with you. Thanks. :-)

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Jeffrey Streeter's avatar

Congratulations again on your richly deserved recognition!

I enjoyed this peice, especially the wordless conversation in the queue.

I'm not familiar with the process, though. So the authorities issue you with a new licence which you then need to go to an office to show them?

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Deirdre Lewis's avatar

Thank you , and no, the only reason I had to go was because I hadn’t renewed my license when I should have.

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Jeffrey Streeter's avatar

I see. An old-fashioned exercise in punishment.

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CG Karas's avatar

I hope that old guy isn't still driving.

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Deirdre Lewis's avatar

Ha!

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Shelagh Doonan's avatar

Thankyou Deirdre - another gem. I’m with you in that courtroom queue - so visceral, and compassionate re- your fellow transgressors…

I also wanted to thank you for recommending Abigail Thomas’ “What comes next…” Can’t wait to read it.

And congratulations on your richly deserved shout-out from Liz Gilbert. It was via her ‘Letters from Love’ that I found my way to your ‘Snaps’ … so, multiple thank yous all round. 🧡

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Deirdre Lewis's avatar

Oh I’m so glad Shelagh! Thank you and yes enjoy Abigail Thomas, I’m already onto the next book, Three Dog Life, she’s great.

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Karen's avatar

What Lizzy said is perfect! I think you should write something for the quarterly newspaper Country Highways. Your style fits. I look forward to your every next offering.

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Deirdre Lewis's avatar

Thank you!

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Karen's avatar

Oops, it’s County Highways.

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Francesca Bossert's avatar

What perfect little morsels you served us here. I loved it.

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Deirdre Lewis's avatar

Thanks Francesca.

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Wendy Varley's avatar

All humanity is here, Deirdre. Poignant. A different kind of message in a bottle…

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Deirdre Lewis's avatar

Thanks Wendy.

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Kimberly Warner's avatar

Huge congrats and hugs and yipppees on that mention from Gilbert. And what a validation for your attentive way in this world. You remind us all how to be more present.

Case in point, a simple, annoying, line at the courthouse and you reveal all the horror and wonder and absurdity of life, not in spite of but because of our humanity.

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Susie Mawhinney's avatar

A huge shout of 'felicitations' for well deserved recognition Deidre! I hope you can hear my excitement for you!

Each time you write, I feel like you've written a new favourite, I love this, I love that you mention vulnerability, I love that EG describes your Snaps as 'perfect little bits of jazz' because they are!

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